I have quoted from and posted any number of times an article by Ben Shapiro from before the 2016 election which compares uncritical Trump supporters to people in abusive relationships: “You Can’t Pretend Trump’s Flaws Away.” I have said, and still say, that it’s the best piece written at that time to explain the mindset that led normally sensible people to vote with enthusiasm for the man who now occupies the White House. Shapiro starts the article with a description of a friend who was dating a jerk. No one could convince her, however, that he was a jerk because she wasn’t in love with that real problematic person. She was in love with her fantasy version of him, and as long as that illusion persisted she simply could not be budged from her devotion. Then the great line:
It’s bizarre to realize that for large swaths of the Republican party, Donald Trump has become that abusive boyfriend.